We must be willing to face reality and truth. That's the first step. I’ve made this statement in many of my books regarding truth and reality. You can mask it, make excuses for it, and even call it something different. In the end, the truth is always the truth. We all will have to face it. We can’t talk about choosing the right partner without understanding why people choose a partner. Let’s set the record straight from the beginning. This book is about truth, facts, experiences and reality with a romantic twist. Sometimes those things can hurt us. It hurts because we're faced with it all. All the tings we try NOT to face. The part(s) of the equation we often times try to ignore. However, like being stuck in a revolving door, eventually that door will catch up to us. If you read something throughout this book that fits you, or your situation, don't be hurt or insulted. I promise you, at some point in this book I will trigger a nerve that may make you quite mad. But I also promise, by the end of this book, you'll get it if you stay open minded. When we close our minds or get defensive, we stop our learning process, our ability to reason, and become self-limiting. We will never move forward. If you don’t learn about yourself, as well as what makes us all human, you can’t change. You will be doomed to an eternity of making the same bad choices. Not just in relationships, but in every aspect of your life. So when we talk, we are talking about all of us. If you think I've never made a bad relationship choice, you are sadly mistaken. I have made my share of them, and went back for more, until it hit me right in the face. I learn about myself and what drives this chemical force we can’t see, touch, or feel. So let’s start by asking some basic questions. Questions that will all get answered. These are the things you need to be aware of as you read through the wealth of information, stories, and experiences you will read about. Questions such as:
Why do we choose partners?
What attracts us to certain types of people?
Why do we go from the pot right into the fire?
Why do we stay in relationships when we're not happy?
Why do we continuously go back to those that hurt us when we've left them so many times before?
Why do we continue to make bad choices each time we move on?
Why do we say we learned, but really didn't?
There it is. The basics of the revolving door. These just scratch the surface of all the things we will discuss, and you will get answers to it all while having a bit of fun in the process. The right answers. The ones you NEED to have. You'll see that much of this is not your fault. Your eyes will be opened. Your eyes are a path to your mind, providing you're looking, your mind is open to what it see's. At times you have no choice. Once you learn why, you will realize you always had a choice. Keep this in mind. People can only make the right choices if they have all the right information. Therefore, don't be so hard on yourself. I can't do it for you, but I can educate, show you, and teach you how. After that, it's up to you. Don't even think for a moment this book doesn't apply to you. That's pure hogwash. I will prove that to you by the time you have finished this book. At this point, that thought is just your way of making the same excuses and , using the same distractions in order to avoid the truth. A truth you have been running from for years. Truth, reality, and the real world of relationships. Let's get started.